A Christian's religious life is centered around worship in his/her church.

He/She is baptized there and confirmed there. It is in the church that the Christian finds God, studies and learns about Him, and worships Him. In the church his/her funeral service will be held. The church is a place set aside in the life of a Christian for services which include and invite God's presence.

Outdoor weddings, by definition, do not include one's church, one's place of worship. The appropriate place, therefore, for a Christian to be married is in his/her church.

Several other programmatic problems arise with an outdoor wedding:

a) People do not act reverently. Since they are not indoors in a church, they will tend to act more casually than you may want them to. People often smoke, or drink, or eat, or talk during the ceremony. It is hard for them to sit quietly and patiently and focus on the wedding;

b) The climate cannot be controlled. The weather doesn't follow even a bride's directions. It is often too hot or too cold, or the sun is in people's eyes. If it doesn't rain, it can be windy or dusty;

c) No one can hear. Without the aide of a massive P.A. system, no one in the audience will hear anything that is said. The presider will have to shout to be heard by even those in the front rows;

d) The music is lacking. A massive P.A. system can make the music heard but it is normally taped music, not live, and canned music gives the ceremony a canned, plastic feel;

e) It is a great deal of extra work. The chairs and tables, for example, need to be rented and transported, set up and taken down. The extra work is a large favor to ask of the participants, friends, and/or family;

f) Candles don't burn well. Between the wind and the temperature, candles won't stay lit; and,

g) Pictures are limited. It is difficult and often impossible to get the formal pictures that many couples want in an informal outdoor setting.

The programmatic problems aside, the appropriate place for a Christian to be married and for a Christian pastor to perform a wedding, is in a church.