If there are children that you would like to be involved in the service whether as ring bearers, flower carriers, ushers, or attendants, please be forewarned that:

a) They will "steal the show". Attention will be drawn away from the bride and groom and to the cute children;

b) Rehearsal will take about twice as long;

c) Their outfits cost just as much as an adult's; and,

d) They cannot understand how important it is to have everything go smoothly.